1. Nakedness is sacred, do not profane it. Fashion should be relevant, appropriate, proper, decent and fitting. Dress properly, not skimpily or seductively. 1Peter 3:3-5
2. Husbands, your wife’s breast are supposed to satisfy you. The society may accept extra- marital affair, mostly, when there appears to be cogent reasons for such. But remember the standards of God stands forever. SO, STAND OUT AND BE A STANDARD. 2 Cor 6:17-18; Pro 5:18-19; Heb 13:4
3. Do not treat your spouses as if they were inconsequential. To you, such may not amount to anything, but to God; they are jewels of inestimable value. Treat your spouse the way you want him/her to treat you. Eph 5:2
4. To a man, love is spelt R-E-S-P-E-C-T but to a woman; it is spelt A-F-F-E-C-T-I-O-N. Be sure you spell yours correctly. Ephe 5:21,25; Col 3:18-19
5. Communication is to any relationship/marriage what food is to the body. Learn the skill of effective communication for your marriage to be nourished. Col 13:8-9
6. The first Adam did not raise his voice when he was supposed to. The last Adam (Jesus) took time talking with people and his disciples. Men should avoid unnecessary silence; it has destroyed many marriages and homes. Communicate your feelings and desires. LEARN TO TALK POSITIVELY. Gen 3:1-6; Isa 50:4
7. Learn to take responsibility for your actions; don’t cultivate the attitude of blame transfer. It has never helped or worked. Confront your issues and deal with them. Gen 3:12-13
8. The secret to a man’s heart is not only in food but in the trust worthiness of the wife and the availability of her laps for him to rest his head on even when his has “BLOWN” it. Judges 16:19a
9. Spouses should not indulge in unnecessary complaints and comparison. Be wise in your dealings.
10. Men, headship in marriage involve the ability to let your wife express her feelings, emotions, thoughts and ideas completely without intimidation.
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